The Better Way to Help Aging Parents with Medical Decisions
One of the biggest issues that people seem to have with aging parents is how to handle medical decisions. For many children of older adults, it just makes sense for them to make the decisions. Parents, after all, can sometimes be difficult and stubborn and might not always do what is in their own best interest. However, dealing with this issue is something that needs to be done carefully because your parents should always be in control of their own health decisions as long as they are capable of doing so.
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In New York, a new healthcare proxy is being introduced to the Senate and Assembly. This bill is designed to allow the principal signer (the older parent) to name someone to help with their medical decisions on their behalf. Of course, the principal always has the final say over what happens, but it makes it legally possible for aging adults to allow their family members to help with health decisions and be involved in their care. Until now, everyone assumed that this was possible, but there is really no legally binding way to guarantee that children can help their aging parents by making medical decisions and handling healthcare issues.
This process should be a conversation, always. If parents want help or don’t want to deal with various aspects of their healthcare, they should be allowed to let someone else make the decisions. However, if they are of sound mind and still want to be in charge, they should be. It is their life, after all. With this bill, more aging adults will be able to rely on family members when they need them, but without the hassles and complications of having to tell everyone that it’s okay to talk to someone else or the risk that a specific company or entity might not allow it.
The great thing about this bill is that if older adults change their minds, they can rip up the agreement and go back to making their own decisions. However, they can also choose which issues to handle and which ones to pass on to their children because they don’t feel like making decisions or aren’t sure of what is going on. This is a great step forward for active adults and their families because healthcare decisions are one of the biggest issues that we face later in life, and they need to be handled with care.
Health Over 55 – The Fear of Aging
As people get older, they tend to live in a mindset that they are never going to ‘get old’ like their parents before them did. However, this mindset is usually developed by a fear of aging, which is being instilled in many people thanks to cosmetic procedures and products that are focused on creating a more youthful appearance for people of all ages. Most commonly, it is women who are preoccupied with aging issues and finding ways to avoid looking older, but there are men who are affected by this fear, as well. No one wants to become ‘old’ before their time, and most people don’t want to get to that point at all.
If you ask most active adults over the age of 55, they’ll probably tell you that they feel young and vibrant, and that they are never going to ‘get old’. Today’s retirement culture isn’t as fearful about aging as the coming generations of retirees will be, thanks to overexposure to advertising, television shows, and other things in the world that focus on beauty, youth, and cosmetic procedures that can make people look and feel years younger.
Today’s 30-45 age group of women (and some men) are more afraid of aging than any generation that has come before them. Due to the constant exposure to the importance of youth and beauty, these people will likely have a difficult time dealing with health issues and aging throughout their life. The problem today starts in adolescence, and needs to be fixed before we have an entire society that spends more on cosmetic surgery than living expenses because of their fear of aging.
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Companionship: Building Relationships in Retirement
Meeting new people isn’t easy at any stage in your life. However, when you’re dealing with something like retirement, where most people have already completed their social circles, it can be even more difficult to find new friends and companions. You don’t have to be looking for friends for life or spouses. Even just finding some people that you like spending time with right now is completely acceptable. The goal is to make sure that you stay social, no matter what. When you’re no longer working every day, it can be quite lonesome without people in your life.
Companionship is all about finding people who have similar interests, values, and ideals regarding life. These are people that you can get along with and that you enjoy spending time with. There doesn’t have to be a romantic element, but for single retirees or those who have lost their spouses, that might come along from time to time. The important thing is that you shouldn’t rule anything out just because it seems like it might not be necessary. You need that social interaction on various levels in your life, and it’s up to you to find it.
This isn’t to say that you can’t spend time alone. By all means, there is a lot to be said for people who enjoy their alone time. However, you have to make sure that the alone time that you have isn’t all the time. It’s really just about making sure that you have friends and acquaintances that you can enjoy time with every once in awhile. Even though you might like being alone, no one should be alone all the time. It can seem like a daunting task to build new relationships at our age, but I promise that it’s worth the investment of your time and energy.
If you don’t already have people in your life, you should make an effort to meet new people and find that companionship so that you’re not alone or reliant on your family for companionship. It’s a lot easier than you think if you just get out there and start mingling with other retirees.
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